Life has a way of sorting itself out.

Do you worry about every little thing In life? Do you also believe that everything in life is the direct result of your efforts? What if you are told that you’re just a puppet in the hands of fate and you will have no control over life no matter what you do.

Will these things start bothering you then?

In life I had often been made to understand such phrases by my friends and family that ‘when one door shuts, another opens’ ; ‘whatever happens, happens for a reason’ ; ‘everything happens for a reason’ ; ‘go with the flow’ or ‘lean into the moment’.

But we humans are stubborn and refuse to easily believe anything other than what goes into our system automatically. We fight till we get the answers or give up the battle only when life decides to teach us those lessons.

But there are some times we’ve to learn to live with the questions till life decides to provide us with the answers.

We ought to learn to have faith in our beliefs and listen to our instincts and understand that sometimes life takes us to places we never intended and this is often a better place than what we sought out for ourselves.

We should keep doing our best and have the faith that life has a way of sorting itself out.

©positivitymonger

What corona teaches you?

Since the last few days, all the conversations that I have had were somewhat related to corona. I’ve been lock down in my home because CoVid-19 is getting dangerous with each passing day.. I had actually never heard so much about anything to this extent but it’s a VIRUS.
And the world has been hit by a PANDEMIC!!!

Is life really this uncertain? We work hard each day of our lives, each in our own struggle to earn enough money, build a goodwill, build a career… then suddenly we wake up one day struggling hard to acknowledge the fact that we may catch this teeny tiny virus from sources unknown and may even lose our……
Sent shivers down my body line when I read the number of cases across the world and the number of people who died so suddenly.

We humans have the habit of cribbing daily about the things we don’t have in our lives, resources we don’t possess. But do we ever take a minute to express gratitude to the universe that we are alive and healthy.
P.s. Isn’t this something we should be thankful for?

©positivitymonger

Express your love

It’s easy to take your feelings for granted and to assume that people we care about know how we feel about them. But those we love are quite cognizant of our feelings.

Saying ‘I love you’ is a gift we should often give our loved ones. Letting people know you love them is an important part of nurturing relationships. Few people tire of hearing such emotions and it can bring a great difference to someone’s life and take your relationship to the next level with that person.

People who find it difficult to express their love verbally should not be afraid of expressing their feelings quite often. It is really important at times to share your feelings with your loved ones and to make them know where they stand in your life and how you feel about them.

P.s. This valentine’s day, don’t assume, just express your feelings to your loved ones and make them feel special.

Inspiration :)

Everyone is inspired by somebody at some point of time in their life. We wish to be like that, true isn’t it? Maybe someone fictional or a real persona?

Well same is my case. I am hugely inspired by him. He is someone who works hard day and night to fulfill all my wishes. He is like the best friend I’ve had since my childhood. Someone who understands me better than anybody I believe. Someone who is always eager to learn new things and is full of experience. Someone who doesn’t shy away in accepting his mistakes if being wrong. Someone who would teach us new lessons daily and would make us value our relations even more. And, I feel so proud to be his daughter. You are my inspiration and I wish to be like you someday. Happy birthday to you.

P.s. A special day. A special dedicated post. But I want to know who is your inspiration people? Mom? Dad? Any celebrity? Who? And Why? Waiting to hear from you. Keep giving your reviews. 🌸

Adult conversations

I don’t understand why everybody is so much afraid of adult conversations.

You don’t like me? Tell me why. I want to better myself..

You don’t want to talk to me? At least don’t ignore me. Tell me the reason.

You are mad at me? Express your feelings.

Am I wrong somewhere? Let me know. Let me correct myself.

We don’t agree? Let’s talk it out. Let’s share our feelings. It’s not that difficult to have such conversations.
I believe we should try no matter how hard things get. Share your viewpoints people.
P. S. Miscommunication is the greatest distance between two people. It is started by EGO and some of the best relationships get broken because of this.

©positivitymonger

What makes you happy?

Have you ever asked yourself this question?
For days, I was demotivated, confused, in a state of depression. I preferred staying alone, would talk very less and my daily activities were also decreasing as lethargy was seeping in. Something was always bothering me.

One day, I decided to talk about it to a stranger as I had the fear of being judged by my known ones. After listening to my story he asked me 1 simple question. “What makes you happy?”
I was asked to introspect my inner self and jot down the things which made me happy. And I realized my Ngo work, doodling, blogging, were some of the things that topped the list.

Later, he advised me to increase the frequency of such activities in future.

And whenever i begin to feel a bit lost I ask myself this question and do the things that would feed my soul and calm my mind.

P. S. Do share some of the things which make you happy people.

And have you ever asked yourself this question? When did the need to do so arise?