Embrace your uniqueness.

It was just yesterday when someone made a passing remark and compared me to someone who is superior to me in some aspects.

The whole night and the following day I kept feeling bad about it.. I wanted to ask how he dared to compare me and tell me that I’m not good enough.

But when I analyzed the whole matter at some distance, I realized that the other person may truly be good in academics than I’m or have more knowledge than I have, maybe she is indeed prettier or whatever it is…I should not feel inferior because of it.
I guess every one – literally just about everyone has felt inferior to someone else at some point of time in some way or the other. Maybe some one is more intelligent than you, more talented than you, higher educated than you, more beautiful than you, healthier or richer than you….
But we should realize that everyone is unique. We should learn to embrace our own uniqueness. As we do this, we’ll start feeling more confident and at peace with ourselves. The whole society is just continuously comparing and the whole idea now sounds so stupid to me.

Everyone talks, eats, sleeps, or thinks in a different way. So we should stop comparing our lives to others and even if we do, we shouldn’t feel sorry because of it.

P. s. We should just be confident in who we are and stop worrying if someone doesn’t like us. It’s not our problem. It’s theirs.

©positivitymonger

Quote of the day #2

True happiness comes to us only after we go through intense pain.

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The woods are lovely, dark and deep,   
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And miles to go before I sleep,   
And miles to go before I sleep….
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You are awareness of your thoughts.

You’re talking to yourself everyday even when you are reading to what I think, you’re having a conversation in your mind. Your perception is everything. Your universe started in your mother’s body, now it continues in your brain.

Remember this, you are not your thoughts, You are awareness of your thoughts. How you react to what you think determines your future. You can’t live a positive life having negative reaction to your thoughts.

What others think of you is their problem or blessing not yours. You need not be concerned about how people perceive you. It says more about them then you.

You are your best friend or your worst enemy. If you’re telling yourself you’re bad, you are ugly or you can’t do the specific work. Your mind will reinforce this within your body at a cellular level.

When you tell yourself you can’t you destroy your confidence. Just tell yourself, I can do it, I will do it, and fight the monster in your life. Learn to love yourself first. Learn to be your best friend and protect your energy to fight your demon.

You can do it, you will do it. You are special. You are loved. You are worth it all. Just believe in yourself. I do, your friends do, your family and your loved ones just want to see you happy and succeed.

Life has a way of sorting itself out.

Do you worry about every little thing In life? Do you also believe that everything in life is the direct result of your efforts? What if you are told that you’re just a puppet in the hands of fate and you will have no control over life no matter what you do.

Will these things start bothering you then?

In life I had often been made to understand such phrases by my friends and family that ‘when one door shuts, another opens’ ; ‘whatever happens, happens for a reason’ ; ‘everything happens for a reason’ ; ‘go with the flow’ or ‘lean into the moment’.

But we humans are stubborn and refuse to easily believe anything other than what goes into our system automatically. We fight till we get the answers or give up the battle only when life decides to teach us those lessons.

But there are some times we’ve to learn to live with the questions till life decides to provide us with the answers.

We ought to learn to have faith in our beliefs and listen to our instincts and understand that sometimes life takes us to places we never intended and this is often a better place than what we sought out for ourselves.

We should keep doing our best and have the faith that life has a way of sorting itself out.

©positivitymonger

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