Everything starts small. The seeds for potential criminals and misogynists as well. If 15-16 year old educated children behave like we saw, somewhere we as a society have failed. Our chalta hai attitude and boys will be boys mentality is the one to blame.
Dear future child of mine,
I don’t care if u are a boy or a girl. You’d be equal to me, let both be equal to you too. I don’t care if you are an achiever or not, I just hope you’ll be a decent human being first of all . I’ll hold your hands, teach you to jump, I’ll dry your tears, clean your bum, I’ll work hard to help u reach high. Please never do something to make me or others cry.
If you are a boy,
Respect others be it girls or boys , respect others be it ur family, girlfriend, colleague, or unknown . Stand up for ur family, stand up for unknowns.
Stand up for ur friends or even against then if situation bemoan. You’ll have many friends outside of family, but filter them out wisely. Remember what to go along with and where to put a full stop. Its brave to be alone if against the the cheap ‘boys locker room’ talk.
Remember that slang words against women are not macho, lust isn’t love and NO should mean NO . When you outgrow my need still remember the good deeds that I had sown.
If you are a girl,
I’ll give u the wings to fly high in the sky. I’ll make sure the chains of gender don’t demand your sacrifice, cry or sigh.
You’ll be perfect as u are, tall or short, fair or dark, housewife, air hostess or film star. Yet, u’ll meet many people in this journey of yours. When things go wrong, always raise ur voice don’t bear any cross.
Remember it’s okay to say No or Yes. It’s okay to forgive, adjust or chuck the things not working & start afresh.
Life is a gift and live it just like that. In ur good health & spirits, I will always be blessed.
©positivitymonger
Nice thoughts and you have written them very well 😊😊
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Thank you for your kind words. Blessings and love. ❤️🌼
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I have nominated you for LIEBSTER AWARD , I hope you will accept it .
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I have a no award blog. But this means alot to me. Thank you for nominating me. Blessings and love. 🌼❤️
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You are welcome 😊😊 stay happy stay safe 💙
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Maybe the most important thing is to tell children the REASON behind doing/not doing something. Most parents never do that and in my view this is the most important thing.
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I agree with your view point. From a small age we need to teach them different things and also the reasoning behind it as you said. Happy blogging. 🌼
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Yup. Be safe! 😊🌹
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Sweet. This is as apt as it gets. Thanks for sharing this.
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I’m glad you liked it sir. 🌼❤️
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really sweet emotions.. 🍬🌷
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Thank you sir. Happy blogging. 🌼❤️
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welcome Akriti mam, and yes I agree with your thoughts 💭
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Thank you. 🌼
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I will tell my kid “DO ANYTHING/EVERYTHING THAT WILL NEVER MAKE YOU LIE”.
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Nice thoughts. Happy blogging. 🌼❤️
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Very nice post with some very wise advice. Thanks for posting this.
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Thank you for your kind words. I’m happy you liked it. ❤️🌼
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Nice concept 😍
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Thank you for appreciating. 🌼
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Amazing…nice thoughts…👌👌👌
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Thank you aarush for your kind words. 🌼
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My pleasure ☺️☺️☺️
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Wow. This is so sweet . Nice thoughts 🙏🤗♥️thank you 😊
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Not everyone wants to instill positivity and equality in their children. The fact that you want this for a child in the future shows the type of person you are. I love it 👌💛
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Thankyou for your kind words and I definitely would want to raise my child with these two qualities. Blessings and love.❤️🌼
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Nice thought.
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Thankyou for appreciating.
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